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I really wanted to post this on !traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net but I'm not trans myself and I didn't want to take up their space.

Basically, the devs of Lemmy are looking to make upvotes public to everyone. Right now, I believe voter identities are known to server admins and mods.

I don't have a strong opinion on this myself, either for or against, as I write this comment, but I'm wondering if there's something I'm missing, frankly as a cishet dude.

But also... I've kinda lost trust in Nutomic making decisions about the software that won't make things worse for trans people since his comments on the Olympics were made public. Dessalines has (so far) at least tolerated Nutomic's transphobia despite whatever prior rhetoric. Frankly, I am suspicious that trans people don't matter to the Lemmy dev team...to be charitable...so I'd really like to hear your thoughts.

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[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 50 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm going to get roasted for forgetting to upbear the threads i post in

[–] KobaCumTribute@hexbear.net 34 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I already feel guilty when I don't upbear someone I'm talking to and now I will feel even more pressure to do it to keep the tone friendly even if I don't like their points.

[–] SeventyTwoTrillion@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

as somebody who upbears everything they see before I even read it (and then removes it if I dislike what the person is saying) whenever I get into mini-debates on here and the other person doesn't upbear my comment before replying, for about five seconds I perceive that as "fuck you, 72T." before I then realize that many people are like you and just don't upbear things that often.

I guess it's just a holdover from reddit culture where you'll see a comment thread 50 comments deep where both commenters have 0 votes on each comment because they're both downvoting each other, and on here, not voting is the closest thing you have to a downvote