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it always embarassed me growing up that our house was kind of dirty.

like i avoided bringing women over and shit because of the clutter.

i cant be the only one who grew up like this.

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[–] KnilAdlez@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Oh yeah, my mom raised me alone and she has pretty bad ADHD and she's a bit of a hoarder, so yeah, I grew up in a pretty dirty home.

[–] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Was it hoarding or a collection of unfinished projects?

[–] RedWizard@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

Yeah hording behavior is not just having a bunch of shit, it's also a deep unwillingness to throw any of it away.

[–] KnilAdlez@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh it was hoarding, especially mail and shipping boxes. I appreciate you going to bat for my mom though.

[–] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 months ago

I was mostly thinking about myself and how my kids might see me. I always have 5-10 projects of various states of completion around the house, but I mostly try to keep them tucked away if I'm not actively working on them.