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it always embarassed me growing up that our house was kind of dirty.

like i avoided bringing women over and shit because of the clutter.

i cant be the only one who grew up like this.

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[–] Sulvor@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

Same, always had to be perfect and pristine. It was exhausting.

Say, it was just the four of us (supposed family) and me or my brother burped at dinner or used our fingers on food, my mother was downright pearl-clutching scandalized.

If I have kids I will never treat the home like a constant formal dinner environment.