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On the 24th of october in 1975, approximately 90% of Icelandic women struck for equality, not attending jobs or doing any domestic work. Iceland passed an equal pay law the following year, but the strike has been repeated on its anniversary several times since, such as in the years 2005, 2010, and 2016.

The strike was planned by "The Women's Congress", which had met on June 20th and 21st earlier that year. Among the reasons given for going on strike were pay inequality, lack of women in union leadership, and a general lack of recognition for the value and skill of domestic labor.

During the work stoppage, also known as "Women's Day Off", 25,000 people gathered in Reykjavik, Iceland's capital city, for a rally. There, women listened to speakers, sang, and talked to each other about what could be done to achieve gender equality in Iceland.

Women from many different backgrounds spoke, including a housewife, two members of parliament, and a worker. The last speech of the day was by Aðalheiður Bjarnfreðsdóttir, who "represented Sókn, the trade union for the lowest paid women in Iceland", according to The Guardian.

In 1976, the Icelandic government passed an equal pay law, and the country elected its first female President, Vigdís Finnbogadóttir, five years later in 1980.

The 1975 Women's Strike also helped inspire the 2016 "Black Monday" anti-abortion ban protests in Poland, as well as the "International Women's Strike", single day work stoppages on March 8th, 2017 and 2018.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

meow-hug

grief, alcoholismI'm really sorry you have to deal with all that. I lost a pet last year and still think about her a lot and I have a similar dad from what I've gathered and yeah, it's really fucking rough and you have a ton of sympathy from me for whatever that's worth

Idk what I could do to help you, but I know a lot about alcoholism and dealing with an alcoholic dad so if there's anything I can help with advice or something please don't hesitate to reach out for anything, even if it's just to vent and sorry if this comes across as patronizing or something because tone can be tough over text but I'm in a similar boat and know how rough it can be

[–] Kolibri@hexbear.net 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I'm not exactly what sure to say. And sorry you're in a similar situation, it is rough. meow-hug you're not being patronizing. Thanks for the offer, except it most likely I most likely won't. Since it feels like I need to find in person stuff around where I live. I don't know. And if it's not that, it just sort of, really not wanting to be a burden, and I know that kind of feels like hurting myself inadvertly, but I really don't want to bother people too much with this stuff. But then again, I do vent on here a lot on here, or sometimes bring some of this stuff up on here, and someone else has offered to let me reach out to on here to in the past, but it just again. That obstacle of not wanting to be a bother vs needing to talk about stuff

And another part of me just doesn't want to keep talking about these things anymore because sometimes, it just feels like it's get old for others. Since like it just feels like there's always something. like for example, besides all the alcohol or grief stuff with my mom or my dog

domestic stuffmy mental health is not the best that I also write on here at times, and if it's not that. it's other things like with one of my siblings, mainly her s.o, threatening my dad like four-five months ago. Which is the second time, last time being last year when my mom was ill. but my dad didn't really deserve that. and for some reason this bothers me sometimes.
it's just, always something else, and feels like it's gets old. since it feels like im not doing enough to handle these things on my own, and that I just need to somehow handle it. but on the opposite end, is I can't either at times. but besides that just another part just sort of tired of all of this. tired of being in this same spot, same point. I need to sleep.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 3 weeks ago

spoiler

it's just, always something else, and feels like it's gets old. since it feels like im not doing enough to handle these things on my own, and that I just need to somehow handle it. but on the opposite end, is I can't either at times. but besides that just another part just sort of tired of all of this. tired of being in this same spot, same point.

Big same

I've been getting better the last couple months getting my personal shit together more but my circumstances haven't really improved materially and the family shit for me is slowly getting worse if anything

That obstacle of not wanting to be a bother vs needing to talk about stuff

Completely understand, I've shut down about similar things to irl people for years at a time about stuff to the point where they've been shocked when something about how rough it's gotten at times slips out

just sort of tired of all of this. tired of being in this same spot, same point. I need to sleep.

yea

Hope you get some well deserved quality sleep

sleepi