Hey all I have no idea what I'm doing here trying to set up a Lemmy instance. I've made simple servers before but nothing like the setup needed for this especially surrounding email verification.
I'm like 10 tutorials deep and on day 3 of trying to figure out what is going on with Postfix. There are so many words and acronyms being thrown around I don't even know what I'm looking at anymore let alone knowing what the right questions to ask would be.
Very likely I'm going to nuke my droplet this weekend to make sure I have a fresh start with no half-baked solutions competing with each other. Would someone be willing to set up a time with me this weekend on Discord or something and baby step me through how to get this thing up and running?
Just use an external SMTP provider. You will have a bad time with sending emails otherwise.
Do you mean something like Brevo? And if so is there a good guide for how to link that kind of thing up with Lemmy?
You don't have to learn postfix to send emails with Lemmy. Just put in the host name and credentials to your email server in the Lemmy settings.
As an example, I use fastmail so I used the settings they say on this page:
https://www.fastmail.help/hc/en-us/articles/1500000279921-IMAP-POP-and-SMTP
For you, you may use something else (maybw Google, and then you have to Google on how to set up smtp with Google).