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Hexbear's new head of operations just dropped, and their way of dealing with the fallout of their last struggle session is to hand bans out like candy to their concerned and disillusioned users while throwing out "epic" quips like insecure teenagers along the way coupled with their communication (and seemingly contempt) towards their own userbase which isn't helping their allegations at all and the revelations that were learned about Hexbear's moderators and admins from their most recent struggle session.

The last few days have honestly shaken my faith in Hexbear and their team and I hope the mods and admins at Lemmygrad are monitoring the situation closely.

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[–] robinn_@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (43 children)

I would genuinely delete your account. Your smugness is so embarrassing. How did you miss the point this obviously? To reiterate what they said, people are not “expected” to publicly affirm anything. They aren’t told to do anything. There is no requirement to post that you “love your trans comrades” like in your Orwell slop. But all this really is no clearer than:

No one forced anyone to ever post in those threads! Why would you feel imposed upon??

What they are saying is not that not posting about “loving your trans comrades” is some indication of treachery, because that isn’t a statement in itself, but that people voluntarily enter these posts and go off against trans people and this weeds them out.

THERE IS NO CONTRADICTION, IN FACT THE SECOND POINT YOU QUOTED FOLLOWS FROM THE FIRST!!!

[–] multitotal@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 week ago (42 children)

I would genuinely delete your account.

Luckily you don't have that power. phew

Your smugness is so embarrassing.

Please don't feel embarrassed.

There is no requirement to post that you “love your trans comrades” like in your Orwell slop.

keyword: daily. I already compared it to another social situation where something is also not mandatory, but it is expected.

that people voluntarily enter these posts and go off against trans people and this weeds them out.

So the thread was a ruse, feigning a daily ritual to provoke those who don't belong in revealing themselves, all the while the ritual's true purpose was obvious for those in the know. Totally not a cult. You're so knee-deep into it though that you don't see it, I'm trying to give you an outsider's perspective. Forums that aren't run on the logic of a cult just remove transphobic posts and warn/ban the person who made them.

[–] robinn_@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

Please don't feel embarrassed.

Below pedantry.

keyword: daily. I already compared it to another social situation where something is also not mandatory, but it is expected.

It’s not expected. There is no expectation that you must post daily, or ever, that you “love your trans comrades.” You compared it to another social situation, I asked for evidence posting in these threads is taken into account somehow like with that example and you said I was in a cult.

You’re quoting Gribbli for the daily point, but they didn’t literally mean daily. This doesn’t happen daily on like a schedule where you’re expected to post this, or even where anybody posts this. It happens often but if that’s your keyword, your argument is washed. You can access all posts on Hexbear, so tell me where this is posted daily.

So the thread was a ruse, feigning a daily ritual to provoke those who don't belong in revealing themselves, all the while the ritual's true purpose was obvious for those in the know.

It’s not a daily ritual. You know nothing about Hexbear and yet you feel like you can critique the site culture. You’re actually embarrassing yourself. No, the point of people posting that they “love their trans comrades” is both to show support and to make the site’s position clear and turn away/root out any anti-trans users. These aren’t mutually exclusive.

I'm trying to give you an outsider's perspective

You’re an outsider times two. You’re going off the word of another outsider and extrapolating that to spin up this idea that users saying they love their trans comrades is some daily ritual that users will be rewarded for or punished for not completing. You have no clue what you’re talking about.

[–] Gribbli@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Now I feel kinda bad for airing old hexbear semi-drama. Really didn't mean for anyone to try to make a point with it, just wanted to state my own experience :\

[–] DamarcusArt@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 week ago

Nah, you didn't do anything wrong. People are responsible for their own actions, not you.

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

You did nothing wrong

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