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[–] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 64 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (3 children)

You don't have to.

Anything really. No matter what your friends say, what your family says, you're not obligated to live your life in a way which is not comfortable for you. Or put yourself into situations you dislike just to please other's expectations.

Do it your way. Do your best to be a good person of course (according to whichever moral standard you hold). But do it your way.

[–] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world -1 points 5 hours ago

Oh thank God. I really don't want to shower or brush my teeth. It's good to hear that I can just decide I don't want to.

[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago

Apathy is also my old guy super power. Not about everything, just all the shit that doesn't matter.

[–] Onionguy@lemm.ee 3 points 14 hours ago

Nice perspective man. It really gives you time to breath.