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Yeah no, fuck that shit. Not going to be lectured about how we should handle woman haters with kid gloves because they can't handle rejection.

Like holy shit apparently getting rejected is only hard for cis men and it's really fucking important. Guess what, it sucks for women just as much. Women get rejected too, but no one cares. Hell, no one even believes it because that sexism runs deep. Wait, actually no it sucks more for women because dating isn't just putting your pride on the line, it's risking assault and verbal abuse everytime too. Oh but on top of that they get to hear from incels (and the media) about how easy it is for women to date. But again, no one gives a shit, because they're women, so who cares.

Meanwhile everywhere you look the media is discussing "Oh these poor frustrated young men. What a crisis. Oh those mean feminists! What do we do?" Because shit that's just silently accepted as normal for everyone else to go through is apparently a crisis if it happens to a cis dude.

I'm not going to accommodate a scratched misogynist any more than I would a scratched liberal.

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[–] RotundLadSloopUnion@hexbear.net 45 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Unlocking the thread now that more mod eyes are on it, any more he/hims who want to come in here and post paragraphs defending violents misogynists will be copping a ban. Do y'all believe there's a misogyny problem on Hexbear yet?

[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 39 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Thanks everyone on the admin team, and sorry I started going through it and realized it was way over my little baby mod head to handle on my own kitty-cri

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 22 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I feel terrible that I caused you so much stress ohnoes

[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Omg no it was 100% not you. You did nothing wrong at all comrade. You should feel like this is a safe space for you to vent and you should feel supported not attacked by incel defenders! I'm sorry that you had to see some of the heinous shit folks were saying! I'm glad the community volunteers stepped in to help clean it up because you and anyone should absolutely be allowed to make posts like this

[–] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you for all your hard work.

[–] Mindfury@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

nah, sometimes you gotta tell em

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