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something that helps me is focusing on the reason why i have the crush: the person i have feelings for is a good person. i want them to be happy. if that isn’t with me, and i’m not going to disclose my feelings, then i try to remind myself i want what’s best for them even if it doesn’t involve being closer with me. it helps those feelings change.
I’m not a good person cuz the thought of them being with someone is physically crushing ngl.
ah no dude don’t say that. it’s normal. i get it. you’re in a difficult spot, i’m sorry.