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Don't build someone up in your mind. They're never what you want. Go off of the material things they've done that you like and also focus on the things you don't like
Also, friendly reminder to temper expectations. Women are often friendly with a lot of people because society demands it of them. Women also tend to be much more cuddly.
yea tru. thanks kristina.
My life would be so much easier if I didn’t do this but that’s probably why I have a personality disorder diagnosis 🥲