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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


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1.) ableist language=post or comment will probably get removed (enforced case by case, some comments will be removed and restored due to complex situations). repeated use of ableist language=banned from comm and possibly site depending on severity. properly tagged posts with CW can use them for the purposes of discussing them

2.) always assume good faith when dealing with a fellow nd comrade especially due to lack of social awareness being a common symptom of neurodivergence

2.5) right to disengage is rigidly enforced. violations will get you purged from the comm. see rule 3 for explanation on appeals

3.) no talking over nd comrades about things you haven't personally experienced as a neurotypical chapo, you will be purged. If you're ND it is absolutely fine to give your own perspective if it conflicts with another's, but do so with empathy and the intention to learn about each other, not prove who's experience is valid. Appeal process is like appealing in user union but you dm the nd comrade you talked over with your appeal (so make it a good one) and then dm the mods with screenshot proof that you resolved it. fake screenies will get you banned from the site, we will confirm with the comrade you dm'd.

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My stepdad is a great and nice guy, and I've suspected for a while that he might be autistic. He's very quiet and reserved, rarely shows strong emotion. Chuckles rather than laughter. He's also fixated on certain things and hobbies, and can talk/ramble about them for quite a long time. He likes puzzles and, what have been given to him, legos. Putting together and taking apart things.

Like I said, no hard evidence, but I could see it.

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[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 days ago

My entire moms side of the family is some flavor of neurodivergent. We talked about it the other day and she let on to me that she was in the 1950s/60s version of special ed because she had what today would be considered a learning disability. That’s when I realized why my parents were so adamant about keeping me in “normal” education even though I was bored out of my mind because I was smarter than the rest of the kids. They refused to have me tested for anything…. As an adult I got diagnosed with ADHD and I’m almost positive I’m autistic as well. And out of boredom I took an IQ test while waiting for my moms apt to finish up and scored a point below genius….

I pick up on patterns so much faster than most people to the point that it’s annoying. For example, I knew the company I worked for was for sale a whole year before it went public, not because I had any insider info but because I could see the moves being made were ones a company would make if it was trying to sell.