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If I had a nickel for every time someone says "this person's being a huge jerk to me but I think they might be neurodivergent"
(lemmy.world)
Regular reminder that being an asshole is not a symptom of any form of neurodivergence. (You can replace “neurodivergent” with depressed, anxious, bipolar, etc. and the diagram works equally well)
ETA: social faux pas, awkwardness, and genuine symptoms of neurodivergence don’t make you an asshole. I shouldn’t have to say this? An “asshole” is someone who enacts a pattern of abusive, controlling, harassing, and/or harmful behavior with no remorse or concern for how other people are affected.
"Not understanding other people's feelings" is called lacking empathy, which is a common autism symptom. I'm saying this because it seems like you might be confusing "empathy" with caring about people, a misconception which harms people who lack empathy.
That's an old misconception. Autistic people don't lack empathy any more than neurotypical people. Autistic people may not react the way a neurotypical person expects somebody with empathy to react, but that doesn't mean there's no feeling of empathy. Sometimes we can easily understand someone's feelings, but still not know what we're expected to do in response to that information.