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I'm not a woman, but I have dealt with this kind of behavior before. The best advice I can give is next time everything is left dirty just go get yourself something to eat and if someone asks where dinner is point out that you can't cook anything in a filthy kitchen and just leave it at that. It's worked with roommates I've had in the past.
I have tried this. Unfortunately when you run a house, things need doing, whether you want to do them or not. So although in principal this makes sense, in the end it just makes more work for the person who is running the house. I have two kids that need to eat. Hell, I want to bloody well eat. Why should we all live in filth so that his ego isn’t bruised when I point out he didn’t do his very minuscule bit ?
This would work with roommates though.
Could you... throw ^the ^^man ^^^away?
Sometimes I wish I could. Last week I told him I love him but I hate being married to him. He sulked for a day and got over it. I’m not over it.
I'm sorry to hear that hun
Running a household with family and children, small and large, is not like a house with roommates learning to be real humans. Shit needs doing and petty passive aggressive games are unproductive despite how cathartic they feel on paper. Good way to ferment resentment and drive a wedge between family though.
Oh no! 😲
You really got me 😭😭😭
Fucked up my whole day man 😰
I'm going to take those words to heart and really rethink all my life choices 😉😉😉
You're sage wisdom will not go unnoticed 🤓
🤡
You're fucking toxic.
Oh my god! 😱😱😱
You mean to tell me that some asshole on Lemmy thinks I'm TOXIC?!?!? ☣️
I'm truly devastated 💔
Please excuse me, I think I'm going to be sick from the grief 🤢🤢🤢🤮