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[โ€“] inetknght@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What work do you try to do?

I suggest that, instead of changing employers, you address this bully head on.

  • Tell him that your employer pays you whether you feel happy or not, and it's not his choice to that.

  • Tell him that your employer would have already fired you if your employer felt you weren't worth the money they pay you.

  • Tell him that your coworkers would have been telling you how awful you are, if you truly were awful.

  • Talk to your coworkers about this bully. He might be bullying them too!

[โ€“] thetreesaysbark@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think you missed the "I am he" part but still most of that applies.