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If you managed to be both, why not maintain a balance
Never found the right balance. ๐คท I said "fuck it" anyway, because there's a few reasons being less feminine is more comfortable for me. I like lifting weights but hate a sweaty scalp, so bye bye hair. I like the fit of men's shirts more. And I realized that there's a lot clothes and accessories that I find pretty to look at, but I don't really get anything from wearing them.
It sucks because customers and family both make rude comments, but at least my clothes are comfy.