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I love this space and I keep wanting to share photos of outfits I have put together, but I don't know how to do that in a way that protects my privacy ... It seems like a lot of effort to use software to edit the photos to make them safe to share, for example.

I was wanting to check with the community and see how women solve this problem generally, and maybe brainstorm a list of ideas of ways to safely share selfies / photos, here were some ideas I had:

  • take photos with neutral backgrounds that don't disclose private information (e.g. location)
  • use something like an emoji to cover up face
  • find a way to share the photo in a password protected way (with what service?), and only distribute the password to users you trust (unclear on the logistics here)
  • share the photo with an expiration feature, e.g. allowing only a certain number of times to view it (Signal has a feature like this) or that expires after some amount of time

Was wondering how you all find online spaces for women where it's safe to share outfits.

I know on Reddit, some of the subreddits for finding a good bra make every post a spoiler, making it harder for prurient men to easily browse and preview photos, etc.

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[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I’d be happy to make up a little tool / bot that can be used for posting stuff privately this way. Automatically remove the metadata from an uploaded image, and then host it, having options for:

  • Emoji obscure the face
  • Require Anubis verification before it will serve the image
  • Delete after a certain length of time
  • Post to Lemmy anonymously

Something like that. I am male so maybe it is creepy for me to offer to host the thing, but if someone else wants to volunteer for that part (you can self host or do one of those $10/mo VPS things), the software to do that would be super easy to create.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 16 hours ago

Philip that's so kind of you thanks so much! Would you mind taking it to DMs? We're a women's only community so don't allow male comments

[–] 211@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's already ObscuraCam meant for AI detecting and pixelating/redacting/eyeglasses-and-mustache-afying faces, and scrubbing metadata. Unfortunately it no longer works as a camera (at least for me), and options for other emojis would be great. But if you could contribute to that (been abandoned for a few years though still listed on Guardian Project's page), it could be useful for mass photos too.

https://guardianproject.info/apps/org.witness.sscphase1/

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 3 points 1 day ago

Hm, that is a good idea. I was thinking more on the server side. I think the big issue is how you can trust the person who packaged the app, the person who runs the server, and so on... the economy of how we decide who gets to make up the code that gets to run our stuff and what their incentives are, and how much control and transparency we have into it, is basically just fucked.