Bisexual
This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.
Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.
Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.
At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.
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The great thing about being bi (and all the flavors of it, which are way beyond me and my small brain), is ultimately that I don't have to care what I am. I just care about the person I'm looking at. Am I interested in their company, their genitals, or just to hang out? Then I go from there.
I'm not saying that you should not consider who you are, but your physical reality is going to be a better guide than anxiety driven by doubts. It might just be that you haven't met the right one. I know that my preferences range wildly between dudes and dudettes.... and those preferences are not at all mainstream. If I had never met, in person, the partner who made me realize I wasn't just into one gender, I would never have known because society tends to present a sort of master image of what is attractive, and that would never have made me look twice.