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Post your self crits. They can political or personal or perhaps even both.

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[–] HiImThomasPynchon@hexbear.net 8 points 3 weeks ago

Exactly. If you want to be liked, you have to make an effort to be likeable.

I guess the trick about changing your behavior is that people don't see things you aren't doing anymore. But they're also keeping an eye out for it, so anything you do that bears even a passing resemblance is conflated with destructive behavior.