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Meeting people is much possible in the real world.
Is it? Fucking where? And how? Because all the people I know I've met through dating apps up, online forums, or knew them from school or uni. I have plenty of hobbies, but there aren't any even vaguely related groups for them, and if they are, they aren't very discoverable.
How do you not meet people? Even if you're stuck in front of a computer all day you can go out to a pub or something at the weekend. Put yourself in a social environment and be friendly. It sounds like you even have experience of that from school and uni.
I'm in the US with no car (and not in a city), and don't drink. No idea on anything that could even be mistaken for a social environment, especially when it requires money.
I mean yeah I'm also not wired for that, so add in other issues/oddities and that's just how it is I guess.
What do other people in your area do?