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Tbh, with my last relationship I went crazy. I slept with many guys to fill the void .. I mean.. I did become numb. But I wouldn’t wanna rack up my body count more tbh. I am so touch deprived though. But in pain. So I won’t disagree with this
first - fuck this stupid gen z / millennial idea of a “body count”
it doesn’t matter. if it does matter to someone? they are trash and not worth your time.
this whole idea is rooted in incel/virgin men being jealous that you, as a woman, had more sex than they did; which is why they want a woman with zero experience. they figure the woman won’t k kw better sex and will happily settle.
(source: i’m a man and i know too many like this)
I know… the body count thing is dumb but if you read my other posts you’d know why it affects me now :/ I know it doesn’t matter but now I have trauma related to telling someone my bc lol. And I know, it’s always the guys who don’t get much play that I find are always asking the weirdest questions and asking me what type of guys I slept with and their size .. cuck behavior lol