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Its slightly funny that this person asked for a man's perspective yet you chimed in anyways, a bit ironic don't you think?
Hey, no, I don't find it ironic or whatever. Ladybutterfly was trying to help, and that's all that matters. They were kind, they cared and offered resources. That's all that should matter.
In principle you are correct, which is exactly what makes it ironic. If it was any other user, I would agree with you, but LadyButterfly runs an instance where any comments or posts by men are immediately deleted; even if they are kind, respectful, and helpful.
It's ironic for her to chime in on a question asked specifically to men, because if this were on her instance and the genders were reversed, she would immediately delete the comment for no other reason than it was from a man.
Thanks shades, didn't click about that. Really appreciate you pointing it out.
OP said "for those" could mean anyone. Plus, why see gender at all? Doesn't affect how you see a parent, or at least it shouldn't.
Literally says men only lol
My mistake, I did miss that line. Premice stands, though, and in the end. Who cares?
If you see the way they treat people for not reading in their spaces it is chuckle worthy
Giving her a taste of their own medicine! Lol nice!