bloomer
A place for optimism, relentless positivity, anti-doomerism, and snuggle sessions.
We're all in this together, and a better world is possible!
This is now also a space for organizing tips for our collective survival as we confront climate change and everything else. Still no doom-posting. We're here to work together, support each other, and boldly face the future.
Rules:
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Familiarize yourself with the site-wide Code of Conduct
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No doom, no gloom, only bloom. There's plenty of room for doomerism elsewhere. This community is solely for having a positive outlook on the future and spreading good vibes.
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Be kind to your fellow users. This also means no arguing in the comm. Arguments and negativity are not conducive to blooming. Constructive discussion is good. No interest-policing. Support your comrades in their joy!
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Always share good news. We can't exactly enforce this one, but if you have good news, please share it with us! Keeping happiness and positivity to yourself is the twelfth type of liberalism.
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Damn that must have taken a lot of willpower.
Thanks. It's a popular misconception that recovery is all about willpower when it's really not, when you try and white knuckle it you generally end up relapsing. A healthier approach is recognizing your triggers and trying to remove them as much as possible from your life, I found that works best. I still have my main trigger to deal with though and that's my dad but in the interim I can try and reduce the harm as much as possible.
Oh totally. There's a ton of factors at play for sure.