i am a trans woman, i do understand this and have to make decisions about what i have the energy and ability re: safety and mental health to get into with people all the time

i have, and i guess i should make this clear, also seen people just abdicate when they didn't have to. I have the information necessary to say that - and i've seen it more than once, and it's frustrating because this doesn't get better if the average dumbass doesn't understand

apologies, maybe you've seen this sentiment weaponized, but that's not what this is.

[–] woodenghost@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

Yes of course, I understand. I didn't mean to direct this all at you personally. I hope what I wrote just gives some context.

maybe you've seen this sentiment weaponized, but that's not what this is

Yes, I have, but no need to apologize!