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I dropped her off this morning and saw girls (and boys) wearing grass skirts, some of them with coconut bras too. I'm not sure what else is going on, but it doesn't seem very respectful of a native culture that we have seriously fucked over. Would they have a "Native American Day" and let kids come in wearing feathered headdresses?

Or am I reading too much into it?

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[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I know a Native American would likely be offended if they let kids in wearing feathered headdresses.

Would they? Depends on the context I suppose. There's a difference between celebrating other cultures and cultural appropriation.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But isn't it sort of the indigenous version of blackface? I'm honestly asking, I'm not trying to make a connection that isn't there.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No, I wouldn't say it's the same.

[–] JesseoftheNorth@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] JesseoftheNorth@kbin.social -2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Then you have no right to speak for them or decide what is or isn’t offensive to them.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Easy there, our friend. At this point in time, it's hard not to see this kind of thing as a mental exercise. Even when it comes to my own culture, I have trouble knowing what is "offensive". Identity is weird.

[–] JesseoftheNorth@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, I agree that it isn’t that simple, and as I said in another comment here, people of a specific culture will have differing opinions and feelings on the matter. That doesn’t mean that non-Hawaiians get to decide what is offensive to Hawaiians, and that is what I am addressing.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ok, then in that case OP doesn't have a right to decide elementary school Hawaiian day is offense. Case closed.

[–] JesseoftheNorth@kbin.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There is a difference. OP is asking if indigenous Hawaiians would find it offensive. You have been stating that it isn’t as a matter of fact, even though it’s not for you decide.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah I catch your drift. I didn't know he was asking Hawaiians specifically. I guess everyone in this thread should keep quiet.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But aren't grass skirts ceremonial? Like part of religious ceremonies? I really would love a native Hawaiian to chime in.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ok, then maybe that shouldn't happen either? I'm just not big on cultural appropriation, especially when it's one culture appropriating another culture they committed genocide against and never apologized for.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cultural appropriation is a debate of its own. The wikipedia page on cultural appropriation explains it better than I can. My view is that yes, it would be bad if people started wearing pa'u's on a regular basis because they think it looks cool with no respect for where it came from. Wearing one to Hawaii day at school is not bad because the intention is to celebrate the culture.

Later this month I'm going to an Oktoberfest party and people will be wearing lederhosen. I live in the USA. Is that offensive?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But again, the U.S. didn't commit genocide against Germany.

[–] walden@sub.wetshaving.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah I guess not. I don't think that's a qualifier for cultural appropriation though.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Well no, I think that literally appropriating their culture by wearing their ceremonial clothing is a qualifier for that. That it's appropriating a culture that America committed genocide against is just the icing on the cake.

[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Britain engaged in a strategy of 'terror bombing', the deliberate murder of German civilians, during WW2, killing over a million people. If a Brit wears a lederhosen, is that offensive? What about a Russian? French folk?

The present is more important than the past. In the past, we've all killed each other in horrific, cruel ways. What matters is the present - Native tribes often still use the national dress they're depicted with (without much concern for accuracy in most cases) in important cultural folkways, and Native Americans in general still suffer from severe discrimination. For that reason, not past genocides (though the past genocides are obviously important to recognize and acknowledge), is tribal 'costume' inappropriate and insensitive.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Indigenous Americans often get pretty offended when white people wear their traditional clothing. I'm not sure why this isn't the same.

[–] PugJesus@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

If you mean lederhosen, then the second paragraph explains why it's different. If you mean the grass skirts, then I can't comment, as I don't know if there's a ceremonial component to grass skirts that would make wearing one offensive.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I meant grass skirts.