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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Left my ex four years ago now and I’ve got a 700 credit score!

She didn’t fuck up my finances directly, but she undermined my sense of concrete reality and filled me with enormous amounts of stress and I couldn’t do anything but hang on by my fingertips in my career.

Four years of active healing and it’s finally starting to manifest in my external life.

[–] Karmanj@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Good for you getting your head in a better place.Sometimes what we want the most really is the worse thing for us.

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

It was love at first sight, literally. We didn’t even discuss going out. The first day we met, we were together as a couple. I cannot emphasize enough that we did not discuss being a couple even a single word, but we both knew.

I ain’t doing love at first sight again. Fuck that.