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I’ll start: My first GF and I didn’t use protection. We used the pull out technique. FOR AN ENTIRE YEAR! I was 19 and could have ruined my life then and there.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] sabriy01@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Why are married people unhappy?

[–] Pencilnoob@lemmy.one 7 points 1 year ago

I'm married sixteen years and super happy. I guess it just depends on who you marry

[–] I_Miss_Daniel@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

I guess many end up in the dead bedroom subs.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 3 points 1 year ago

IDK. I'm not married anymore.

[–] CaptFeather@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Lots of people rush into marriage without knowing their spouse's red flags

[–] Chocrates@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

It's also not that but people change and grow, even if you are an adult. My ex-spouse had a thyroid problem and her personality was completely different and eventually we separated.