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For example, people on Reddit asking redundant questions and give equally redundant or unhelpful answers.

Whenever every 'What's the worst show you've seen?' is asked, you'll get 10,000 "Kardashians" answers, which is just easy karma farming.

If someone posts in a community that's geared for something like opinions, but someone elects to just go on a full scale rant instead.

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[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 82 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Going to a sub of strictly like minded people and posting popular opinions for karma.

"Thanks for the gold" and other "Edit: this blew up" type bullshit.

Any time someone says "obligatory [anything]" I want to scream.

[–] Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social 44 points 1 year ago

Unpopular opinion: [incredibly popular opinion]

+67,000 upvotes

[–] Wumbologist@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

Oh God I hope award speech edits don't make it over here

[–] nyternic@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's the fate of, ironically, a subreddit called UNPOPULARopinions.

"Beyonce is overrated!" - just throw them the lifetime achievement award for "unpopular". /s

Because of user karma. Even a fake incentive to say things that everyone likes beyond normal social pressure creates a bunch of people who eagerly say inane shit to get moar doots.

[–] JossyBop@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Between that, and just hate, I stayed on that sub for maybe a couple of hours.

[–] Poiar@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] TechyDad@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I used to use /s all the time over at Reddit - especially in political discussions. If I posted sarcastically "advocating" for something, I didn't want people to misread the post and think I seriously supported that thing.

Normally, I could trust that people would pick up on the sarcasm, but it's hard over text and there were people actually advocating for the horrible stuff. I didn't want to be mistaken for one of them, so I'd add a /s. It definitely ruined the joke, but I'd rather do that than have someone think I was racist/sexist/bigoted/etc.

[–] beefbaby182@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Sometimes the /s is necessary. It's difficult to convey sarcasm in writing.

[–] iAmTheTot@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why is posting this ironically any better than posting it unironically?

[–] Poiar@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

It's one of the thing I don't miss. Using it the "correct way" is supposed to hurt your eyes. /s for the people who don't get it.

[–] Erikatharsis@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get the others, but why that last one?

[–] Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Think of it like this. When humans talk to humans, is any joke ever obligatory? It's "that's what she said" any time anything vaguely prurient gets mentioned.

Now imagine if they said "I'm obligated to tell you that's what she said." Do you see how they've added a tragic undercut to a comment that already wasn't funny?

People should not do this.

[–] Erikatharsis@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To be frank, I still don't get it, but I also hardly qualify as a human to begin with.

It's overrated, you're doing great