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Yeah, I really didn't like my buddy's girlfriend. I could see right through her, and she was changing by buddy for the worse. She was convincing him that his image was shit, and it really damaged his confidence. He'd change his outward appearance for her, dropped his entire lifestyle, but she had abandonment issues so wasn't ever happy with any partner.
Turns out she was a narcissist, like bonafide. What went down next:
She graduates college with a STEM degree, while having freeloaded in his house her entire senior year (his mortgage)
She breaks up and moves out of nowhere, this several months after she insisted on all the other roommates get kicked out to "take it to the next level"
He goes suicidal, makes two attempts, but finds another lost soul to have a fling with, which starts to bring him out of the depression
Ex-girlfriend finds out about new fling, drops by house at 1am after having left the club (driving drunk, I'll add)
Makes a huge scene out front of his house, I'm there for my "shift" on suicide watch, she ends up kicking me in my fucking kidney while I was squatting and smoking a cig
He ends up depressed again, 3rd suicide attempt and he doesn't survive
I'm a pall bearer at 25 for my best friend since 8th grade
Fuck that bitch.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what kind of horrible person does that kind of shit to anyone, let alone someone who struggled so much with their mental health.
It sounds like you were a great friend to him.
Oh my God that’s fucked up. I’m sorry for your loss. I hope there is comeuppance here somewhere.
Sorry for your loss
Final word being removed really drives the story home