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stalking someone's posts seems more like harassment than anything else. try blocking
do you even know who you're replying to? I have zero interest in whatever petty bullshit yall bringing from another community. I just thought they needed a reminder to log off once in a while, if this is how you're spending your time. same to you, Mixter Step-In
This whole thing was started because Starmer has a hate boner for it and deleted its comment. Starmer provoked someone, so they shouldn’t be surprised when the provoked responds back.
Whoooooooooo cares log off or block
Cyberbullying can’t be undone simply by “turning off your computer”. These are real people harassing other real people and profiting off of the fact they are anonymous and probably won’t be held accountable for their vileness, meanwhile the victim will just suffer and be scared to even wake up in the morning. This shit is SERIOUS, especially for those with cluster B personality disorders who are already HEAVILY stigmatized as it is. The internet is supposed to be a save haven, and the only way to maintain that is through fighting and actively pointing out toxic people such as yourself.
I don't know who gave you that idea, but it's definitely not true.
If it’s not true, I will make it true. I will make sure it comes true, no matter what happens. The internet is a huge opportunity for those who weren’t usually represented in offline spaces to be themselves and form their own communities. The internet was always a place where barriers and prejudices shouldn’t have mattered. We need to protect that principle. And if that principle is not true or not valid, I will make it true. I will work my hardest to make it so. And nobody can stop me.
Such righteousness! But can't you see that this attitude is part of the problem? Here, this video actually explains it pretty well. You, too, are reducing an actual person to just one random shitty statement. A fleeting opinion becomes the entirety of their personhood, and that links up with everything shitty you've seen anyone else say that was similarly shitty. The person is no longer a person but a caricature of evil poisoning your internet space. That's not reality though. OP is just a flawed human like everyone else who said something hurtful. In our real day-to-day lives we are normally forced to reconcile with that, because we see our neighbors constantly and depend on one another. But on the internet we don't need to reconcile that, because it's just an anonymous throwaway space where words battle words. But not the Fediverse! Because the Fediverse is small enough, we bump into each other constantly. We'd be wasting a golden opportunity by reducing a person to a set of opinions.
If you really want to make the Fediverse a better place, which I believe you do and which is why I'm responding again, then you and I and everyone else need to focus on seeing people for who they are beyond the screen. It's doable on here. We're small enough. We see the same usernames all the time. Did you know I'm a happily married drug counselor in my 30s? You do now! Am I more than just the asshole who told you to chill? What could OP do to reach the same goal? What can you do to facilitate that? Is the best course of action to just roast the guy every time you see his posts? Or find a way to reconcile? I think you and I have the same goals. Maybe OP too.
I post infrequently for a number of reasons, but prime among them is the thought "Nobody actually cares". Your sincerity was touching and sorely needed in all online spaces.
Keep being you. Thank you for bringing some humanity into this inhuman space.
🙏 thanks for posting this
Are you a fucking child? I don't actually care because you're a garbage person.
I'm not stalking him. I'm browsing Lemmy normally and he happens to come across me very often because of all his posts. I tell him to fuck off when he runs into me. That's not stalking.
You made 5 comments today across all my posts (including this one) openly accusing me. You are the top level comment. You are running into me because you are a stalker.
Probably just want to get attention from someone more popular than you.
That's right bud, he hates you because he anus.
Or something
That sounds like a threat
Or they'll keep posting because they like posting, and probably just block or ban your alts. Idk if you're staking them specifically or just popping up everywhere on lemmy, but please stop bringing up being banned. It's a slog.
I thought you said this in response to being banned. Anyway, don't do whatever you'd call that. It's annoying and irrelevant to the post. (Plus untrue, but it doesn't sound like you can be convinced)
Do you have any evidence for this claim?
Literally no.
That user is otherwise known as DroneRights. You can check modlogs and see that they've had accounts on every major instance and every account has been banned for transphobia, general bigotry, slander, and copious amounts of lying. They particularly hate me because I am both a popular poster as well as someone who specifically called out their shit and got them banned from Startrek.website. They openly admit that they have narcissistic personality disorder and are using that to both abuse other people as well as shield themselves from abuse. They are literally incapable of coping with the fact that someone has pointed out that they are a trash person and has made it their sole mission to try and slander me at every possible case.
I banned them from 3 communities earlier today for making these exact same claims about me and providing zero evidence but these comments still exist elsewhere.
Honestly I just keep forgetting they exist. I think they're drastically overselling how important they think they are. Only reason I'm even aware of their existence is because they just keep copy/pasting the same argument over and over again. Literally not creative enough to come up with anything new.
You are a known alt account of DroneRights.
It's not nice to insult someone's language skills, they could well be learning, and it makes some people very self conscious.
How do you know? It also still hurts people who are learning since they'll be afraid to write things.
Something would have been shown if there was evidence about it.
Do you need me to doxx myself and send over my location, face, home and everything to prove I am not DroneRights? Do you need me to compare blood samples? Because I feel that simply saying the truth won’t be enough for you.
You can’t possibly fathom that ANYONE would actually defend a narcissistic person. You can’t fathom that ANYONE would stand up against injustice besides just talking about standing up against injustice. You can’t imagine someone doing this shit out of love and care, because you have zero concern about people with NPD. As long as you will continue this dehumanizing nonsense, you never will. What do you need me to give you to prove it to you that I am not just an alt? I am my own person with my own choices who has seen this stuff and decided to jump in. Not the first time I’ve done it, not the last time I will, either. If you choose to not believe me, that’s fine. Believe what you want. But you can’t fathom that anyone else would disagree with you, would stand up against you and would point out your hypocrisy.
Last thing: you don’t know me. You don’t know who I am, what I do, what I like, what I dislike, what I eat and drink. If you knew, you’d know I’m not an alt account.
Your IP was matched to DroneRights when you were banned from another instance.
You are a known alt account of DroneRights.
I think the point of this is to bait me into doxxing myself. If we were to have the same IP, I would have got a screenshot or a link to the modlog that proves it.
How was it even matched to DroneRights? Can you show me the proof it was? Could you please give everyone the damning piece of evidence that proves once and for all that I am an alt account of DroneRights. If my IP was matched to DR’s IP, then I need to see this. I am genuinely stupefied by this. Like, genuinely give me a link to the modlogs or send a screenshot, any sort of proof. I did not know my IP was matched to theirs. I know my IP should be Romanian because that’s where I am from, and indicating Bucharest because we are using a private relay on our iPhone (the iCloud+ thing).
Lol
Yes. He called me a slur for my mental disorder to my face a couple hours ago. https://lemm.ee/post/20523475
"Narcissist is a slur!" -cried the Narcissist
I've done the digging I need to to confirm to my satisfaction that you've at least 3 alts, all of which defend you, use it/its pronouns, and all of which claim to be the originating victim.
Stop lying, log off
Wish I could say I hated them or even pitied them but frankly I don't even think about them at all. The fact that they think about me non-stop is pretty gratifying though I guess.
You know there's a block button? Like the one people use on you so you need to use alts?
That’s your only proof? My guy. Did you just learn yesterday that more than a single person uses it/its pronouns? Damn.
"Narcissist" is not a slur. Additionally, he's calling you out for your bad behaviour and online harassment, not "because you have NPD".
If you have a mental disorder that prevents you from behaving nicely online, it may be wiser not to comment. Because people won't see your NPD as an excuse, but as a justification showing that you do demonstrate bad behaviour and therefore are prone to breaking the (social) rules. Ergo justifying the ban.
Exactly.