please don’t start shit in the comments, i’m too disabled to care
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“hurrrr durrrr both sides are bad ackshually”
this is you, this is what you sound like.
I mean I don’t think that’s at all what they were doing and tbh that was pretty rude. They just thought it was funny how something managed to offend two completely opposed groups for completely different reasons.
Coming from the person that's starting shit in the comments...
bite me
Is that an actual invitation cause that's a thing for me
only if you’re also a girl with a penis (girls that formerly owned a penis are welcome to apply)
I don't know, burning a pile of copies of mein kampf would be pretty based, I think it really depends on the book.
Kind of embarrassing for you that right above this you started shit in the comments
Edit: This comment before I changed it said "Really unfortunate you're choosing not to engage."
Really unfortunate you think someone with a disability owes you something. it’s a meme. this is a meme group. you want to “engage” someone on it, go post in a discussion group.
or ya know, go suck my dick, idc either way.
edit: sick edit, still don’t care if im being “rude”, ~~as your original comment stated,~~ to someone who had to post their super smart observation in response to a meme
I'm also disabled. That doesn't mean you can just say/do anything without consequences.
Nobody said you owed them anything.
Easy to say if you didn’t see the original, completely different comment before it was edited. Please shove it with the respectability politics. I am tired, out of spoons and I gave fair warning. I don’t owe anyone politeness, especially so on this topic.
My original comment said "Really unfortunate you're choosing not to engage." Not sure what you've found do controversial about that, because here you are.
If you don't owe anyone politeness, what makes you think any of us owe you anything? You're going to hate this, but the reason you're getting shit thrown at you is because you're throwing shit
You’re going to hate this, but I’m well aware already 😊
You seem like a real cunt :) x
That’s the best compliment anyone’s ever given me 🥰
Then you're totally welcome :) x
Do you realise the first comment in the thread was just a harmless (amusing even) observation and you were triggered for some reason and responded with "hurrr durrr"....?
way to out yourself as a piece of shit by using the word triggered like that snowflake :) x
Is that a thing? Only pieces of shit use the word triggered now...?
See, to me, you outed yourself as a piece of shit by burning things that could have been donated to kids who have nothing.
So I guess we all have our perspectives huh? :) x
Edit: interesting edit to decide to add the word snowflake to your comment.... Trying to work out if you're being a bit thick or deliberately ironic. Either way it's an odd decision in this context to be honest.
why is that relevant here?
I hope you some day learn that everything in life is made up of many, smaller, things. And I hope that gaining that knowledge empowers you to feel like you have control over at least some of the stresses in your life. And I hope that leads you to a place where you're not angry and lashing out at the very people you seek validation from. And I hope that when you stop pushing people away, you will receive the validation you need - that we all need, as human beings - and you can feel the relief you're currently searching for. And that some day, the comments in this thread will seem like a silly thing to have been upset about.
I hope you find the peace you need. Have a good day.
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I posted in response to your "hurrrr durrrr" comment, and never called you rude, that is someone else above.
You’re right, my mistake. Still don’t give a shit. Still not going to be polite about it. Telling me to engage about this is the same sort of tacit transphobia as saying there’s still a debate to be had about trans people’s right to exist. A vocal minority of fuckwits does not mean there’s cause for a discourse.
and you really want to have a real discussion and i still really don’t give a shit. i’m not going to engage just because you tell me too. repeatedly telling me i should engage on “burning books is bad” is the transphobic part. i don’t need to explain myself or my actions. i don’t need to justify them to you or anyone else. now please, could you leave me the fuck alone?
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Topics in life are nuanced and intersect. Burning one book with the reasoning that it's fighting transphobia does not nullify the other things that book burning represents. If book burning being bad is transphobic, then fascists are trans-positive. Clearly, that's not how the world works. An action is not defined solely by intent, but also by how it is received by others. You do not get to define how your messages are received, and part of human socialization is navigating how others feel about what you do. Communication is a two-way street, but you're demanding that only your way matters.
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You could have exited the conversation by not responding.
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Ahhhh, you have last word syndrome I see :) x
Nah, it's much closer to Nietzsche's "Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process they do not become monsters."