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So is it a high probability that if a chick used to be super into me and has cooled considerably and on the site we were talking on it looks like she's up talking to somebody else.

I'm assuming she's found another dude she likes talking to more than me..

I'm not positive though

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[–] AlkaliMarxist@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

Maybe, have you met in real life? Talking online, particularly on a dating site, is super low stakes so people aren't as guarded and can often give the impression that they're way more interested than they are.

Maybe she's just busy and isn't spending much time online at the moment. Pretty much impossible for us to say.