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[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I have been in numerous relationships where we did not discuss finances in any detail. We'd talk about like who'd pay for dinner, but not larger stuff like "are you saving enough for retirement" or less at-hand stuff "is that Netflix subscription really worth it?"

Not every relationship is monogamous marriage with merged finances. Sometimes you date for a couple years. Sometimes you're polyamorous. There are many options for relationships.

Edit: your last point has truth to it though. Finding partners who are financially compatible is a plus.

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

It's possible to be in a monogamous marriage without talking about it too. I just outlined how that works for me and my wife as a response to the same comment you replied to.