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I'll start: "Shoving x down our throats"

the amount of people who have told me i'm one of the good ones because "at least you don't shove gayness down our throats," or "i'm fine with it if they dont shove it down our throats" has made me cringe whenever i hear that phrase used in any context, even harmlessly. how about you guys?

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 15 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Using it as a slur would make me think you're literally a boomer

I am old and I've heard it used as a slur in person, but I have seen it used innocently enough by most normal people that it's been like reclaimed.

[–] JohnBrownNote@hexbear.net 36 points 9 months ago

less reclaimed and more "the non-slur use is and maybe always has been primary"

[–] pooh@hexbear.net 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I am fairly old but I've never heard it used anywhere outside of Back to the Future. I'm also not from the south, though.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Is it a south thing? I'm from the north and that's where I heard it used as a slur.

[–] viva_la_juche@hexbear.net 16 points 9 months ago

its definitely kind of a boomer-y slur here in texas, i've heard it more for that than the online fed thing until relatively (2010s) recently