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I was late ~~diagnosed~~ discovered as well. Early 30s.
I have a decent mask built up but it is really exhausting so I try not to use it if I don't have to.
On thing I've found about small talk is, people love to be told what day it is. Like they ask you "how's it going?" and you say back "well it sure is a Tuesday!" It's actually amusing how well it works.