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Do women often worry men will go psycho simply for rejecting a dude? Been reading some stories and shit that is fuckin scary (hexbear.net)
submitted 11 months ago by FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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Seriously the stories I've read about dudes threatening to drive to womens house and murder them or something over rejections is insane.

Have any of the ladies here had to deal with a psychopath like that?

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[–] FearsomeJoeandmac@hexbear.net 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I think like at least a good quarter of modern dudes just go psycho over rejection. That's why women are so much more careful about sussing out potential romantic partners. They don't want to end up chopped up in some angry fucks freezer.

I've had women friends tell me "Yeah I thought he was attractive physically, but something about him seemed clingy and possessive and didn't feel right" or something similar when describing certain men they've rejected.