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Seriously the stories I've read about dudes threatening to drive to womens house and murder them or something over rejections is insane.

Have any of the ladies here had to deal with a psychopath like that?

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[โ€“] kristina@hexbear.net 21 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

yea some men are very physically imposing, ive had a ton of horror stories at my local big ass grocery store and metro

i drag my killing machine of a bf everywhere now

cw: horror stories

spoilerlike gropings passed off as moving by me, a guy asking about my underwear, a guy following me around and staring at me. not to mention the crazy stuff i used to deal with when i was dating. one guy threatened to hunt me down and mount my head on a wall for rejecting him and then whinged about how hes too good for a tra***, who are just vile demons trying to corrupt christian men. police got involved with that one cause apparently he threatened a lot of other women and was being investigated. i also have been SV'd a number of times but i dont feel like talking about that rn. sometimes it feels like these kinds of guys can tell youre damaged goods and are on you like a fly on shit. one time a guy was very dangerous feeling to me because he was backing me into a corner at some isolated place and i just went along with it and gave him some random number

sometimes i think about how it is taliban policy to chop the hands off of people that grope women

Transgender women seem to unfortunately get regular creeps and then the extra weird "chasers" (like Vaush) who want to reduce you as a person down a fetish for them.