I feel like it's a harmless joke

I'm admittedly biased as the person who posted this but also... I don't see this as sexy.

I agree that it could be fetishized but I wouldn't describe the image itself as fetishizing and moreso just acknowledging the existence of the feminine penis.

since when is it bad to find people hot?

Oh yes, the body parts police

Feet? Fetish.
Breasts? Fetish.
Penis? Fetish.

Feel the same way about this 🫠😕😿