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Mansplaining vs ND Over-clarifying (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

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[-] crazyminner@lemmy.ml 63 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Option 3: I work in IT. I see on a daily basis people with bachelor's and PHDs doing some of the stupidest shit. I assume no one knows fuck all.

Them: "My camera for teams isn't working please help!"

Me: Flicks open the webcam cover and smiles trying not to make them feel too bad😅

[-] Blackmist@feddit.uk 16 points 3 months ago

Having received a screenshot of an Excel spreadsheet, embedded into a Word document, I always go option 3.

I'm also old enough to have had to explain why a 27MB Publisher file could not fit on a floppy disk to be sent to the printers.

[-] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

Gosh these are great examples, holy hell they're wild

[-] Asafum@feddit.nl 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The older I get the more I kick myself for "knowing" I'm too stupid for a PhD or master's in anything.

I've always had an interest in science, I love watching something like PBS spacetime or fermilab videos (because I'm obviously a layman and won't understand anything actually detailed), but I've always held this belief that I'm "wayyyy too stupid to actually do the work." and then I hear story after story of "very smart people" simply not understanding the simplest of concepts.

Oh well lol

[-] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 14 points 2 months ago

then I hear story after story of "very smart people" simply not understanding the simplest of concepts.

Usually this is because their knowledge and skills go very deep, but not very wide. There is also a big divide between the practical side of things and the theoretical. Another thing I’ve noticed is that if you spend a lot of time working on very complicated problems you tend to forget that most things have simple solutions. So when confronted with a simple issue your mind kind of ‘skips over’ all the simple stuff and immediately assumes it must be something complicated.

[-] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago

i like to classify this problem as an optimization problem more than anything.

The simplest possible solution is an impossible feat, and varies depending on the requirements and shenanigans willing to be committed. The approximate simplest possible solution is very achievable, but requires a lot of thought, a very specific use case, and an established ecosystem. The most functional solution is whatever you manage to cobble together quickly enough to prove that it's possible, only for it to be used for about 3 years, because it works fine^tm^

Anything else is a nightmare abomination and should never be classified, exposed to the light of day, or shown to other people. Except as a cautionary tale.