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Advice on finding a partner? (lemm.ee)

submitted 6 months ago by lemmylem@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don't want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there's the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it'll come to me.

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[–] Nomad@infosec.pub 37 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Spend your time doing what you like and talk to women you meet while doing that. It has several advantages for dating. :)

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I met my current wife in the crackhouse we both frequented, it was very romantic and just like a movie.

[–] Thavron@lemmy.ca 18 points 6 months ago (1 children)

and just like a movie.

Trainspotting, Fight Club or Requiem for a Dream?

[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 11 points 6 months ago

She's always beating the shit out of me and may not actually exist so I'll go with Fight Club.