I have a good friend whose wife drinks borax water every day. They spent just about everything they had on in vitro and lost the baby. I love them to death, and I'd never, ever suggest to them that something they did is why they lost the baby, but sometimes I genuinely wonder if it's because she drinks borax. To clarify, I did tell them not to drink borax when they started, I'm just saying I wouldn't specifically point out losing the baby with the borax connection.

I get the inclination to not trust things at face value, to do your own research, et cetera. Especially in the US, we're bombarded with new meds we're supposed to "ask our doctor about," but there's a pretty thick, fucking mile wide line between researching the meds you take and listening to Becky on tiktok and deciding to drink a literal poison that even the victorians knew probably wasn't the best for you by the end of their run.