I've tried joining clubs or participating in events but even when I do manage to have successful conversations I can't manage to turn that into a friendship. Considering how the year just ended I'm not going to have a chance

I never minded being alone when I was younger but my loneliness is really starting to really affect me.

I've lost any internet in watching tv shows or movies or playing any games, I can't find the motivation to study and always feel tired.

I've also started to constantly fantasize about being in a romantic relationship and worry about if I'll be alone for the rest of my life despite the fact that I've never had any interests in relationships or even an IRL crush.

I also have a porn addiction that's growing worse and I'm worried about its long term effects on me.

I've also never had any online friends before which means I don't know where to start.

I really need help.

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[–] mosiacmango@lemm.ee 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

The Seattle freeze is akin to the Norwegian unfriendliness. People pretty much look past strangers as a kind of indifferent politeness, but it's not actually cold or hostile.

If you find those activities like NYC or any kind of shared interest, Seattle opens its arms wide, be it for board games, death metal, knitting, cycling, whatever. All are welcome, well almost all.

[–] toasteecup@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

God I love Seattle. I'm strongly against oppression but I have an exception for Nazis. Those fucks killed plenty of my cousins, I ain't giving them a 2nd chance.

[–] MagicShel@programming.dev 2 points 5 months ago

Violence is not the answer. Unless the question is Nazis. Damn, that was a satisfying hit.