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[–] NounsAndWords@lemmy.world 38 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (4 children)

Why would I unload my emotional baggage on the people who caused it in the first place? That just sounds like more baggage.

Edit: This was supposed to be a joke. You can stop pointing out my complex trauma, thank you.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

You wouldn't, that why you have no idea how to comfort people.

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

This is exactly the kind of thing that comes from emotional isolation and a wrecked self-esteem and a lack of proper, loving people close to you in life.

In healthy environments, people who love each other share with each other a lot of things without it feeling like a burden to anyone and they support each other and know how to just listen and be available. And no, I don't know what that's like either, I am just sharing the legends and stories.

[–] Steamymoomilk@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Gonna need a storage locker its gitten to big!

[–] LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

That's where I keep mine! It's safe there and no one is bothered by it. Except me 😫

[–] MacNCheezus 3 points 5 months ago

Because it could be used as a teaching moment.

A good parent might sometimes give their child tasks they aren’t ready to handle and let them make a mistake on purpose in order to teach them right from wrong.

A parent will simply let them persist in their mistake because it’s easier than making the mistake effort to correct them.