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Hello new Lemmy friends!
Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.
The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.
Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.
We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!
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And into adult nursing relationships. And she said consent is annoying, remember?
I’ll never forget!
What?!
She was on the What Day Is It Podcast several years ago. In this podcast, she said her turn-on is fantasizing about Shane breastfeeding. She went on to discuss how it’s called “ANR” adult nursing relationships. Bailey and the other host were a bit stunned and Sarah told them they can google it. I think they thought she was joking at first until she kept elaborating and then made the consent comment. Sarah then said he wasn’t into it and said, “This is why consent is so annoying. I just want him to do what I want him to do.” It was posted on Reddit. I’ve recently looked, and that podcast episode has been taken down. Like since it was posted on Redditit has been removed. @queerlyyoursamanda made an IG post about the consent portion of Sarah. The Reddit group has since been removed. Im guessing Sarah didn’t like people hearing her talk about how annoying she thinks consent is. It was grotesque. I may have a copy of the recording. I’ll have to check.
Whoa! Consent is EVERYTHING! Omg I unfollowed her and the friends all ages ago for lack of care about anything of substance, but I didn’t know this was also something that had happened! okay this doesn’t sit well with me at all. I don’t want to see the recording I trust this is something that would be out there plus non-consensual anything could trigger people affected by SA trauma. I’m not weirded out by people’s different “things” they are into (everyone is different when it comes to what makes them “happy”) but body autonomy is body autonomy! Partners need to be okay with everything. No means no, and that applies to a partner not being into something taken as something that shouldn’t be brought up or suggested again.
Agreed! No kink-shaming -it does show her pattern of entitlement and thinking everyone owes her what she wants. Her comments were gross. She followed it up with “it’s not like I can get anyone else to do it” which made me so sick. Such an abusive stance.
Wow! They took it down in 2024 and it had just been sitting there since 2021.
It is so telling they took down the private episode, likely at Sarah’s request. She’s literally allergic to admitting when she’s wrong.