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[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Several of those programs are scammy. I know people who’ve been screwed by their company in South Korea, Ethiopia, and the Philippines. I’m glad it worked for you, and it’s a worthwhile thing to try if it calls to you, but it’s a recipe for culture shock and depression if someone doesn’t fully understand and want that experience.

I’m an American living in Germany, and I teach German classes to new immigrants, so I see a lot of people who wanted something different, but didn’t specifically want Germany. It’s much more difficult for them to adjust to a new place than for people who specifically seek Germany out.

I also personally think teaching children is too important to leave to people who are untrained, even if they’re subject matter experts, but I may be biased as it’s my career. I definitely wouldn’t teach kindergarten, because I (like most people) don’t have the patience.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works -5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

As much as literally any profession is scammy, I'll agree that teaching can also be scammy.

I'm glad it worked for you, but like I said, there are many other avenues.

Teaching abroad is not a recipe for culture shock and depression.

That's like saying learning to swim is a recipe for drowning.

All these people complaining about their jobs and how they can't survive their life and don't want to do anything?

They're already pretty depressed.

That's fine if you don't have patience, lots of people do.

People assume that if something can't help everybody then it can't help anybody. And that is about as wrong as it gets.

Do you want to heal people? Go into health services. Do you want to make video games? Go into programming or design. Feel like working with your hands? Carpentry.

The carpenter isn't going to want to make video games, and the programmer doesn't want to be a doctor. They found their own solutions. Not everybody has to be a teacher.

If your goals are simply to maximize your own time, there are many effective ways to do that quickly.

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Teaching abroad without proper preparation and understanding of what you’re signing up for is a recipe for culture shock and depression.

Just like going swimming without proper preparation ( swimming lessons and adequate aerobic fitness) is a recipe for drowning.

Lots of people have the patience for kindergartners, but that’s only because there are eight billion people. Telling everyone who’s depressed to go to a new place where they know no one and have to deal with kindergartners and employers who may or may not fulfill the accommodation or pay promises they made while not having a good working knowledge of the local culture or language is irresponsible.

[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works -5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It sounds like you had a bad experience, but try not to project that on to others.

Nobody suggested teaching or swimming without proper preparation and adequate aerobic fitness. I understand how changing your argument makes it easier to argue against yourself.

Kind of like how in your subsequent paragraph you pretend things were sad that nobody has said in the entire thread except for you.

You don't have to teach kindergarteners if you don't want to. It sounds like it you might want to re-examine your choices.

Making up your own arguments and then throwing a tantrum about your own bad ideas is not very convincing.

If your goal is to maximize your time and minimize your work, there are lots of easy ways to do that.

Teaching is one of them.

You seem stuck on teaching, probably because of your profession, but it's not the only road and you shouldn't force it on others.

You prefer to minimize your own time.

I help people maximize their time and minimize their work.

Youre naturally defensive, try to recognize that.

[–] idiomaddict@feddit.de 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] Varyk@sh.itjust.works -2 points 6 months ago

You were funny. Neurotic like.