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First of all, what you said was not stated in the article, and it should have been, so they could at least pretend they weren't victim blaming. As it is, they can't even pretend, they're stuck with people like you apologizing for their worthless drivel.
Second, you're speculating that the family members went down toxic rabbit holes as a response. I think it's just as likely that they already went down those rabbit holes, but others didn't know about it, because they didn't have occasion to proclaim their feelings. Which is to say, the damage had already been done, but you didn't know it.
I agree that it should’ve been stated in the article, I’m not apologizing for them not doing so. I’m just reiterating what his daughter’s perception is, and that the reality of that isn’t “wrong”, as it’s entirely possible that his descent, if it was a descent, happened as a result.
Once again, this is literally how she saw things play out. That’s all the information we have, anything else is speculation, including the notion that he was like, born a bigot. Unfortunately these toxic ideas aren’t born with people, they’re infected with them at some point. And like I’ve said, I’ve personally witnessed it happen to genuinely terrific people.
So unless we all plan on ignoring Vivian’s own words, I don’t think there’s much more that can be said. And regardless, none of this was my point anyway. My point was literally that the title of the article isn’t wrong, and that something being caused by another can be possible without anyone being at fault for it.