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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 weeks ago (10 children)

This woman is such a trainwreck lol. All of these are bad. And leave it up to her to not try them on beforehand and then they all end up looking like THIS lol. Also why do we need to see her putting them on in her bra and undies?

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

We did not need to see her actually putting them on! That was for the other demographic watching her feed! Birdie and Alicia seem very out of place with the others on this trip!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 24 points 2 weeks ago

Once again Sarah in a hotel getting naked for her followers, her favourite thing to do when she’s away from the family.

These other girls look so hip and cool then there’s Alicia and Sarah looking like they raided a tacky costume store on Hollywood BLVD

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago

Notice how all of these other people are posting and tagging WB in real time, except her? Because she has to spend the time filtering before posting. Not a single repost of anything of hers by WB

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago

I wonder how many of them even really know who she is 🫢

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

Those other people actually look pretty cute. Not every event calls for a full on costume, plus it’s wasteful. She and Alicia will literally never wear those outfits again; at least the others can if they wanted to although they probably won’t because influencers. I have a lot of gay friends so go to theme parties a few times a year and NO ONE wears costumes other than Halloween. Everything she does is so passé lol.

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

When other content creators reveal the real Sarah vs her own filtered posts

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

This needs to be the reply to the people on that Reddit sub who are saying the pictures aren’t taken during the same time-frame and her weight ‘fluctuates’

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Welcome to the last week before school starts for our stellar Guelph mom! What will the week bring? She’s away for 3/5 days of the work week and then it’s university drop off! I can only imagine the theatrical performance we’re going to be treated to since she’s the only one who has ever had a child start university. I also imagine there will be some wonderful poetry written about the passage of time as B is starting hs the same time M is leaving the nest. Meanwhile poor little L is being used to emotionally manipulate M to make sure she goes back to Guelph regularly. I’m expecting quite the show!

[–] BirdsaLiar@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago

Can you imagine the convo with her ex. ‘I want to take her because I need the content’

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago

It will all be about how hard it is on her and all her hard work in raising them... nothing about their milestones.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I’m sorry but I feel so bad for M (and the other kids too). She’s still off playing make believe in Hollywood and her daughter is at home packing up her belongings and probably very nervous for such a big moment in her young life and she doesn’t even have her mom there for her because her mom would rather dress up as Beetlejuice. I truly hope she’s with her dad and step mom and not having to worry that she has no one there for her.

[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I guess the haunted tour was way more important than supporting her daughter as she starts uni. Surely she could have skipped the last day.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 19 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Seriously, the whole event looked mediocre at best and I think she could’ve said no this time. Just because you’re in a “yes era” it doesn’t mean you have to say yes EVERY single time. I think she’s terrified of saying no and being forgotten about.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Maybe she could say “yes” to her daughter 😕

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

That whole trip looks like something she should have skipped!

[–] Lisamarie@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I would be spending this time with M. if she was my daughter. You don’t get those moments back. I really struggle to understand this but then S. is a selfish jerk so it tracks.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago

Right? She whines about how tough it all is for her that M is leaving yet she’s the one leaving and flying off instead of spending her last days at home with her. Make it make sense! You can’t complain how tough it is when you’re not even there.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I know! The packing is hard. She’s really close to Nana so she’s probably helping out. It might be better without Birdie who would keep telling her it’s okay to leave things since she’s coming back every weekend.

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[–] ByeByeTurdie@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Instagramreality/s/CjFY1l5DO6 Hop over to Reddit and check out this post on Birdy !

Half a million views and counting…lots of people are having their eyes opened as we speak.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

I’m loving all the comments from people who have unfollowed her over the years!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Oh goodie a fabricated first period story to try and sell some kn*x period undies 🙄

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Just watched it and it sounds made up and she would have told this story over and over by now if it was true.

How about the story before that one about seeing women on the street. I screamed outloud when she said the one wasn’t dressed for a boy - this is how she thinks. She dresses for the male gaze all the time and she said it out loud! And then she said the outfit was for her - Sarah - has she ever thought, just once, people dress to please themselves. They choose outfits they like, that are comfortable and make them feel good. We don’t choose clothes thinking about people looking at us. That’s what Sarah does.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Thank you! My thoughts exactly. I dress for the occasion, I dress for myself, I dress for comfort or purpose. I love fashion and dressing up but never have I done it for a man or other women. That's not the point of loving fashion. She just told on herself in the LOUDEST way. She dresses for attention and that's it. Maybe that's why her outfits always suck. They don't have love or self expression behind them. It's just "how can I be the hottest in the room and get all eyes on me?"

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It explains so many of her hideous choices! The birthday outfit was a standout

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago

If you wear something like she did on her birthday, you have to have the confidence to pull it off. The personality for you to wear the outfit. Her outfits wear her, so they come off even worse. She was hiding and cowering into herself. If you are going to act that way, why even bother?!

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yupp 100% made up and then she follows up “this girl is actually a teacher at M’s school and I asked her about it once but she didn’t remember” of course she didn’t because it’s all made up lol.

I had to go back and listen again because I spaced out the first time and omg you’re so right!!! She’s like soooo marveled that someone is out there just dressing for themselves and not for attention. I’ve legit never dressed thinking of other people, only myself and what’s comfy. Everything she wears she plans it in her mind of how it’ll appeal to other people, she never looks comfy in what she wears so clearly it’s never for herself and only for attention. Can’t wait to see the attention grabbing Beetlejuice outfit.

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[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I just have to say, if she learns anything from this dress up event, it is that she should cut and darken her freaking hair. Even the green wig makes her look younger and not so haggard. HOWEVER , she may have the “forever 21” filter on in those pics. Who knows any more with this con artist.

[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

Jeez, here I am replying to my own comment. lol she says she’s kinda sad being a blonde again. Hello ! Is she that dense she can’t see that the ultra fried bleached look ( that is not blonde) is just very aging and sooo yesterday, and the extensions just magnify the dragged through a hedge look.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I hate how they always defend and doubt when she gets posted on r/Instagramreality. It's so annoying. Don't they have eyes?! I wish someone had that Shame skinny filter video to post!

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

My first question is - Did she set up the phone to record and then tell them to start the experience?My second question is - Why would you post this cringe-inducing dance segment? My third question is - Why does she think she can be a model when she really has to rhythm and doesn’t move gracefully? I think she could move gracefully but she’s way too in her head about how she looks so it’s always awkward. My fourth question is - Why would you wear something that has a butt-hole printed on the back?

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

Somebody pulled the plug and let the air out of that thing! Lol! The wonders of today’s photo editing never fail to amaze me! It’s like building a Lego for some people - remember that month she was all about Lego? 😂

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This was legit the most awkward video. Her trying to “dance” gave me so much second hand embarrassment for her.

Everything about her is a trainwreck

[–] cookiefleck@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago

I’m haunted by that clip of her dancing alone in what appears to be the lamest, emptiest “bar” ever.

[–] frosty_ad_3723@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The fake smiling and laughing acting in her reveal video is so fake and annoying lol

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[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I hope Shame jumps into the DMs of women he sees out in public. The desperation is giving me second hand embaressment. I see celebrities all the time, I don't jump in their DMs. I hope he forever leaves her in message requests.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Imagine if Shame said to her one day “oh I messaged this supermodel I really like that I saw in public” she would go off the literal deep end. She’s so embarrassing, is she hoping he’ll message back and they’ll become bffs or something lol.

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah like what's the endgame here? Lol it's actually even worse cause it's not like he's gonna say awesome let's collab! Or yay leave your unemployed husband and run away with me 😂

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[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)

Another 3000 + followers today 🙃

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago

shop, shop, shop, shop, spend, spend, spend, me, me, me, me, me, me inserts one photo of stretch marks "See, I'm JuSt LiKe YoU gUysSsS" 3,000+ in one day. Okkkaaaaaay. Delulu Barbie

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Lmao there is no way 3k people clicked on “follow” for her today 😂 I’m sure she thinks nobody notices this but nothing is secret.

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[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

someone is feeling very insecure.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Come on! How old does she look here?

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 weeks ago

I was gonna post this shot too! Her filtering herself to look like a teen is so weird. She needs help. She doesn’t look like this!!!

We need some professional shots from this “event”.

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[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

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One of her favourite celebrities is on her flight but she doesn’t want to ‘out’ his location. This is what she says! Can you imagine if Shane said this about a female celebrity?

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