this post was submitted on 10 Sep 2024
11 points (73.9% liked)

Shows and TV

353 readers
184 users here now

Open discussion of Media / Shows / Television

  1. Be nice
  2. Don't go off topic
  3. Don't rage farm

Other communities

We are still open to mod application, please comment on this post: https://lemm.ee/post/40675177

founded 2 months ago
MODERATORS
top 10 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] sentientity@lemm.ee 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I think people who complain about content warnings fail to understand what they are for lol. They're so people can make decisions about what media engage with on any given day to manage their own health. No one is saying that any type of content shouldn't be depicted or is bad or needs to be watered down. It's not the same as other rating systems or anti obscenity movements. It's about viewers being able to enjoy their favorite gory bleak violent reality bending upsetting content when they're completely sure they are in a good headspace to watch it.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Isn't that what ratings are for?

[–] sentientity@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Ideally, but usually ratings don't tell you much about what is inside. The ratings systems that existed in the US in the 90s and 2000s when Sopranos was on were still pretty entwined with a culture of shame and moral panic about CORRUPTING THE CHILDREN. It was definitely still related to religion and ideas like "you can't put that on tv!!" or "that song is bad and listening to it makes you bad." HBO was not on regular tv partly for that reason. For Edie Falco's generation, I suspect that kind of thing was much worse and more entrenched. So I think older people equate any warnings about the content art with movements to limit what can or should be depicted be in art.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm opposed to trigger warnings for the same reason I'm opposed to participation trophies. Part of maturing is learning that uncomfortable things happen in the world, and that you will not always be successful.

If you don't want to see uncomfortable things, perhaps you should not be watching The Sopranos, or Sons of Anarchy, or Yellowstone, or Hill Street Blues, or MASH. Stick with Disney+ (but maybe not, I watched Lion King last night in honor of the passing of James Earl Jones and cried like a baby).

Serious question, where do trigger warnings end? I am triggered by any father showing approval for their son. (Hell I'm choking up just typing that). My wife and daughter will tell you that no matter what: TV, Movie, Audio Book, or even commercial, it will destroy me, sometimes for a few minutes sometimes longer. I have never seen a "Warning! This show contains graphic fatherly approval of their children that may be upsetting to some viewers" I would never think of making an issue of it either. My emotional fragility is my issue to deal with. Not someone else's.

[–] sentientity@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I think you're missing my point. Being upset, disturbed, uncomfortable or moved emotionally by something is not what a trigger means. The word has been watered down significantly. I am explicitly referring to its original usage - mental health symptoms which could throw off a person's wellbeing. That is what trigger warnings are for.

Edit for typos.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm sorry, which part of "destroys me" don't you understand? Do I need to spell out that on more the one occasion I contemplated a bullet in the head because of those things?

Just because you are unable to relate to such a thing does not mean my mental health is not negatively impacted.

So I ask again, where do you place the limit on what is deserving a trigger warning?

[–] sentientity@lemm.ee 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This is a clear troll. You have a good day now.

[–] rhacer@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I love it. I don't understand your mental health struggles so I'm going to resort to name calling.

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago

I've never experienced the sort of violence being referenced here so that, my friend, is not life

[–] Radium@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 month ago

I’m surprised she isn’t listed as the star of Nurse Jackie considering it was a big show and she was the literal star