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[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 183 points 2 months ago (38 children)

You phone shouldn't make any sound whatsoever when you're in public period.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 77 points 2 months ago (4 children)

It can ring and give notifications, as long as they aren't set to something obnoxious.

[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 82 points 2 months ago (3 children)

It becomes obnoxious no matter what it is when they're having a text conversation with someone and it's going off constantly

[–] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 35 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I'm pretty old but do you know the Woody Woodpecker laugh? I used to work with a girl back before smartphones that had that as her text notification. It was the whole thing which takes like five seconds so sometimes it was just that fucking sound almost non-stop. Here it is, cursed fucking creation.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

That sounds like something they would do to prisoners in Guantanamo.

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[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago (8 children)

For me, if I’m actually having a conversation in public, I’ll silence my phone.

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[–] doctortran@lemm.ee 11 points 2 months ago

Well they should silence it at that point because obviously they're paying enough attention to it and expecting responses, so they should be waiting for the vibrate if not looking at it directly.

But people don't need to have their phone silenced at all times while in public, they just need to be attentive enough to answer and silence it. I frequently don't even feel the vibration.

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[–] conciselyverbose@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 months ago (4 children)

The worst part is that it's just normalized enough that you can't really call it out.

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[–] MeatsOfRage@lemmy.world 124 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Worst thing about someone watching a reel out loud is you hear the same 15 second sound bite 30 times while they're reading the comments.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 33 points 2 months ago

or 5-second disconnected bits while they scroll

[–] Gerudo@lemm.ee 21 points 2 months ago

That's my wife, then after like 2 minutes she tells me to watch it.

I JUST HEARD IT 23 TIMES!

[–] TheEighthDoctor@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago

Oh no oh no oh nononono

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[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 81 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I swear to god, please please please do not blast your fucking music, even if it is rad like ratm, on the walking trail. No one likes it and it makes you look like an asshole and I have to glare at you instead of giving you a friendly wave.

[–] ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I see a few cyclists doing that these days on the bike trails. Some of these absurd $10K+ bicycles even have speakers built into them. I guess it's slightly less obnoxious since a bicycle will pass a walker or runner very quickly, but it's still dickhead behavior. Even worse than music, though, is people who blast fucking preachers.

[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Blasting preachers is a special sort of asshole behavior I never encountered or considered before. I bet they think they are saving souls.

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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 66 points 2 months ago

Hiked up to a ridge today. Guy up there smoking and playing a radio. Ugh.

[–] Th4tGuyII@fedia.io 52 points 2 months ago

Man, my brother is the worst for this. Has multiple pairs of headphones, usually at least one on his person, and STILL will blast his Instagram reel on speaker as if everyone around him wants to hear his doomscrolling and brainrot memes

[–] spookedintownsville@lemmy.world 50 points 2 months ago (2 children)
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[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 45 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I really wish people were more interested in open format ear buds and bone conductors. They are the perfect blend between personalized notifications, background music and being able to hear what's going on around you as well as so much more comfortable than having your ear holes plugged up. I wear mine all day long sometimes and forget I'm even wearing them.

[–] _____@lemm.ee 13 points 2 months ago (16 children)

Got any links or recommendations?

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[–] Wanderer@lemm.ee 43 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (15 children)

People need to get called out for this more.

I was thinking "I bet back in the day people would have called people out on their shit. That's why standards were higher". So I called some guy out on it and he was like "sorry sorry sorry. Okay" and he put his hands up.

Look cunt you obviously seem to know it's not right if you acting like that so why you being a knobhead? Just because no one will call you out?

Edit:corrected my own shite grammar

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[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 37 points 2 months ago (2 children)

If you are in public, like a bus, restaurant, store, public space, etc.

Your phone shouldnt make any fucking noise at all besides ringing and the text ping noise.

And if you're gonna answer it, don't put it on speakerphone, and respect teh fact that everyone within 300 feet of you doesnt want to be party to your fucking phonecall.

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[–] octesian@lemmy.world 36 points 2 months ago (10 children)

Its not their fault. The phones took away their headphone jacks.

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[–] lurch@sh.itjust.works 33 points 2 months ago (3 children)

okay, but what if it's a very important porn video? /s

[–] BobGnarley@lemm.ee 14 points 2 months ago

"A plot this deep has to be heard and seen to be fully appreciated."

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[–] Zamotic@lemmy.zip 32 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Maybe don't walk around the store while on facetime with the volume on full blast while you're at it.

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[–] yogurtwrong@lemmy.world 30 points 2 months ago (11 children)

Just like drug addicts, these people are addicted to dopamine and they will do anything to get it even if it makes everyone else uncomfortable

I think TikTok format video players are straight up drugs. It's a real physical addiction which even has withdrawal symptoms

They are so appealing, I do avoid them but it's just sad to watch everyone else become a victim of those

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[–] new_guy@lemmy.world 27 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don't have this problem because whenever I'm in public I have my headphones on. Even if I'm not listening to anything on them they're still good enough to muffle every other sound blasted by others.

It's easier to adapt myself than it is to educate everyone else I guess.

[–] Orbituary@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

Ever go hiking? Skiing? Sit in a park? This is the same concept as some douche blasting shit on their Bluetooth speaker while you're trying to exist in the moment.

Maybe it's hard to conceive of for some, but the world shouldn't be shielded by headphones.

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[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 25 points 2 months ago

some folks firmly believe everyone and everything exists solely to entertain them snd they cannot fathom that anyone else wouldnt feel the same

[–] sevan@lemmy.ca 24 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I used to judge people for going about their daily lives with headphones on (like shopping) as being antisocial. In the last few years, I've come to realize they were just quicker to realize how annoying our society is and I'm increasingly likely to join them.

Recently I went to a mall and visited all the department stores. One of them had a guy playing a piano live and my first thought was "how quaint". Then, as I sat and waited for my wife to try things on it struck me that I wasn't hearing horrible music played over speakers - the piano was really nice. Why can't places go back to playing relaxing music like that (even recorded)?

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[–] WereCat@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Then there is this guy that has his headphones so loud that I can hear what he listens to from 5 rows away

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[–] Pantsofmagic@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago

Remember when tech companies wanted you talking to your phone for everything out loud. Hey Siri, eat a boiled dick.

[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 20 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

This chick was watching how-to makeup tiktoks super loud w no headphones and after 5 mins I asked if she could turn it down and she scowled at me and said ‘YOU CAN WAIT’

[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago

You and that clown make up can get fucked...is what I would've thought about 20 min after this happening

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[–] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 19 points 2 months ago

Obnoxious dickheads gonna be obnoxious

[–] Revan343@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Mute with subtitles is fine

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[–] lowered_lifted@sh.itjust.works 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Literally had a dude do this when the VP debate was on, and he was all cheering and pumping his fist soyboying about JD Vance

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[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago (4 children)

It takes me a while to see how enraged I get with it. I always have to wonder if I can take a punch from that person.

I once joked, "hey that's pretty loud isn't it?" And instead of them taking the hint, they were startled and were like, what's going on? and I instead I just go, "excuse me, could you turn that down?" now. Direct approach is better.

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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I was at a party and another person was watching videos on their phone without headphones while everyone was watching a movie. We were all too polite to say anything because it was part of a three-day meetup for people who had been talking to each other on a forum for years and no one wanted to be critical of anyone else, but wow did it piss me off.

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[–] biggerbogboy@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Literally my school bus, there's like 50 students inside at any given time, more than half of them blast tiktoks, shorts, reels or other bullshit, the rest are either yelling and acting macho, or really wanna gtfo of that bus.

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[–] phoneymouse@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago

At work once, some guy was watching YouTube videos in the bathroom stalls with sound on. He was also laughing at the videos. What a fucking weirdo! What kind of animal does this?

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago (4 children)

Some other things to add:

  • Stand left, walk right on escalators and moving walkways
  • Do not walk more than two abreast, and be aware that there may be people behind you who want to walk faster.

My main gripe with society is that everyone else is in their own little worlds and I'm stuck in the real one dealing with them all.

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