The claim "NATO provoked a war and wanted Russia to invade" is not a tankie claim, it has been admitted many times in NATO sources.
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A 1997 letter from fifty foreign policy experts warned Clinton against cornering Russia and expanding NATO: https://www.armscontrol.org/act/1997-06/arms-control-today/opposition-nato-expansion
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A 2019 RAND report 'Overextending and Unbalancing Russia' suggests sending arms to Ukraine and provoking a war: https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_briefs/RB10014.html
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In 2022, the US admitted that its strategic goals do not include peace, and that it's using Ukraine as a pawn to create "a weakened and isolated Russia": https://thehill.com/news/3263473-sullivan-us-wants-to-see-an-independent-ukraine-and-a-weakened-and-isolated-russia/
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Then US Ambassador (later CIA Director) William Burn cautioned that NATO expansionism would trigger a Civil War exactly because it did not have support in the public (and that Russia would reluctantly invade): https://wikileaks.org/plusd/cables/08MOSCOW265_a.html
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55% of Ukrainians believe NATO has responsibility for the Russian invasion: https://s.wsj.net/public/resources/documents/WSJ_NORC_Ukraine_Poll_June_2022.pdf