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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 25 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Remember ladies, you can only be confident or relevant if you walk with “confidence” in a string bikini while overweight. Nothing else. Please don’t bother going to school. Or a career. Or have a nice personality. Or do good for your community. Or put others first. Nobody cares about that.

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Thank you for writing this. She sends a horrible message to you people. Her whole crew does. How to live like Sarah Nicole Landry: Don't bother with an education. Don't have a career. Make one up. CEO! Always steal other people's ideas. Exploit children. Whine. Bitch. Moan. Lie. Plagiarize. Take. Ask and take. Grab everything you can get your hands on. Claim you are a victim. Don't help others. Filter. Be a mean girl. YOU come first. Now take your clothes off.

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[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Does she EVER prep, cook and host a family meal for any holiday? Oh no she just shows up in costume at mostly her mother’s who does all the work.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

No never. NK just slaves all day and makes her stupid little foods shaped as things lol.

I’m going to a hosted thanksgiving today and I’m preparing a dish to bring. I bet she never even offers. All these gifted kitchen products and she doesn’t do shit ever.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

Her contribution is the free GF baked goods Brunner’s sends her every holiday. ZERO effort or money spent on her part.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Because Sarah is the gift. 🙄😂

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[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

For give me, I forgot her kitchen is STLL under reno (taking a very long time, it seems) however I will look forward to her feting the fam at Christmas in the new space !

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

You know what. NanaK will still be the one preparing most of it and bringing it over. They will just reheat in their new fancy oven.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

She does F all. Maybe when her high end Reno is done

[–] Uterusofsteel@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't know why she couldn't have just sponsored a child and stayed home? It has to always be about her. She literally just got back and left her kids again. I know we talk about L a lot, but what about B and the J? I have a 14 yr old too, and she needs me soooo much. Much more than she ever has before. At least emotionally. She's such a selfish B.

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[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I love the leader. ( it’s ME, I’M the leader) My head has officially exploded! That little story pretty much says it all about this person. She knows nothing about the spirit of volunteerism and it being all about the kids, not about her. Is she truly soo desperate for adulation, attention, to be noticed and loved, that she would post this ? She is beyond needy.

[–] lightweight@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

As someone who has worked in many kindergarten and elementary classrooms this happens all the time. It does not mean she’s anything special 🙄 Some kids attach easily and want that/need that positive reinforcements from the adults more than others. Sweet, yes but she seems to take it as a glowing review of her character 🙄

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[–] Sweetsaltysalary@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago

"I went to Paris and all I got was this shit content"

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Trying to go viral with a wannabe model walk

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Walking with confidence? While using a filter? Where are your stretch marks? Why is your skin blurry? Ugh. She can't be for real!!??

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

And why is confidence always about her body and appearance? What about her abilities?

[–] outdatedavianfruit@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

You are sooo right on this ! Terrible message she is sending out for women, young girls, and especially her three daughters.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

Yes! This. She is so shallow!!

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[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

With her “natural” face. She’s played this game for years now. Real photos of Sarah gets posted from events or by others so she gives glimpses of less edited photos to mess with people who might question if she edits. I think she is despicable.

I’m talking about her face in this video. Her body looks edited in very strange ways.

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago

You’d think she would look for the glitches before posting

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago

Oh the mysterious vanishing stretch marks. Once again, so boring. Same old shit over and over and over again. Damn she really has nothing else going for her aside from stretch marks and a belly that she makes vanish, what kind of message is that?

[–] You_received_that_way@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

It also has a body and face filter, but again so brave

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Is this her new face she’s trying to sell? Because it is not her real face whatsoever! Jfc she needs to be cancelled, she’s such a fraud. She really thinks she’s a 20 year old.

[–] Poofluencers@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Her saying that her hair has natural volume 🙄. There are candid photos that beg to differ. Nor does she mention the 2000$ hair extensions. Don’t act like your fake hair is because of a product bird. I remember when I realized she also edits her hair in photos, I was 🤯.

Shane’s bday is probably happening this week-ish - maybe thats why Sarah didn’t mention it. But she didn’t mention anyone, did she? No gratitude for her mother raising her toddler, or for cooking for everyone. No cute shots with her beautiful sister. I think they are all sick of you. But what do you do when your controlling, manipulative narcissist sister/daughter/wife/mother cries dark thoughts and couch watch?! They have to be tired of her.

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[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago

The fucken peace sign!!!!!!

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

As if! She's back to this era of hair⬇ both images look photoshopped and like two different people.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

She wants everyone to think Caudalie is out here making miracles ffs. She knows she’s a fraud and does not give a shit at this point because she’s realized her fans are too stupid to notice or they don’t care.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I feel like she’s been even more of a fraud since she came back because she knows there’s professional photos of her out there from the trip and she wants to double down that she doesn’t look that way and it’s just “different lenses”.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I said it the other day. I think she might try and go for more makeup/skin care brands after this France luxury trip. Kosas is headed to Hawaii.

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[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I always wonder what Shame thinks when he sees his wife filter herself to look like a MUCH hotter 20 some thing year old lol. Is he banned from her social media?

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

A goodie posted on Reddit. Birdies a fraud as usual

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (18 children)
[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago

And Leaky is there too..............how?!?! How do these mean girls get to go on trips that are supposed to be uplifting and positive for kids, when they do everything BUT that to others!?!?

[–] Selfabsorbedbarbie@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

When she doesn't take the pic...she looks her age.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I had no idea it was Shane’s bday. She made it seem like it was B’s. Did I miss something?? Usually she makes a massive production about her amazing grifted gift she got him.

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (7 children)

Why don’t you oh idk SPEND TIME WITH YOUR KID after being at Disney, instead of acting like a teenager!!!!!! Man her priorities are fucked. Why not be consumed by your kid instead of videos that have no bearing on your life. Like she does not care at all about L (or any of the kids) or her husband that she’s sooooo in love with.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I swear she’s looking at her phone instead of paying attention.

[–] Glowpop@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago

Definitely, so obvious that is what she is doing. How disrespectful to the guest. The mic's strategic placement is so annoying. We know it's to cover her chin and neck but it looks so stupid front and centre on the screen.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

An organization she uses to get another Disney trip in basically. She was just in France now she’s off to do this tomorrow 🙄

[–] facialSwelling@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Why doesn't this organization take someone who the kids will know? There are dozens of kid-friendly YouTube stars in Canada. Or the Raptors mascot? Instead, it's "look, the naked mom is here."

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Alicia is going and she doesn’t even like kids . All these 2 clowns care about is getting to Disney

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[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Imagine when L realizes she was born as a content baby and was raised by her grandmother because her birther couldn't give a sh*t about anybody, but herself. At this point. NK should just have legal custody of her and stop with the mind games for this little girl

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Agreed! Her mother is never around and when she is at home she just drops her at NK’s anyways. Sarah just uses L every so often to make it look like she’s a great mother and they have so much fun together.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

She did this with her older kids, while she was claiming to be a "struggling single mother". He ex had them most of the time because she decided she didn't want to be a mother anymore and deserved to live her life now. When she did have them, she would take them to viral bake shops, or ice cream places, fill them with treats, take a million fun photos and after a couple of hours, drop them to NK anyways. Then, throughout the week, she would post pics of them like she was the single mom all week...but people fell for her scam and failed to notice the kids we wearing the exact same outfits in every pic she would post....she's always been a fraud

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

The pick me follower at 40 (Becci) who can’t make decisions for herself and needs to know what everyone else is doing.

[–] No_really_why@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 weeks ago

This is so sad. They clearly ate without her / ditched her before for her to beg them to include her. I don’t like the neighbour, but it highlights how mean girl the others two are.

[–] ladybonerforjustice@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Sorry but there’s no way Briony actually likes Becci.

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[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This guy needs some downvotes in the Guelph subreddit

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

It's suuuuupppppper weird how they go SO hard for her, when the post wasn't even remotely about her, but they had to insert her into it

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